To compare and contrast, respect and disrespect, is a way of seeing and anazlying how other people act, on respectful ways and disrespectful ways. I used a video from the show teen mom, and how the couple respect or disrespect themselves. Amber and Gary have a child and they constantly argue. To compare Respect is good and shows that you care. Disrespect shows that you don't care about yourself and other people.To compare both of them would have to be people expressing there feelings either way. This video with the two people dicussing their feelings about what happen when they were fighting(in a calm manner) is respectful. When they were fighting on Amber putting her hands on her boyfriend was very disrespectful and could have been avoided, with a calm mannerd tone and talked things out, and fight infront of their daughter. This just a little demo on compare/contrast on respect. Where they talked about there problems and how it could be avoided.
These two videos are the ways that they are compared and contrast because both of them are talking about their inside feelings and how they feel about one another. The first video, they are being very disrespectful to there parents. Although Maci is very calm and relaxed, talking to Dr.Oz about how she feels and what really matters to her.
Certain people have a way of saying things that shake us at the core. Even when the words do not seem harsh or offensive, the impact is shattering. What we could be experiencing is the intent behind the words. When we intend to do good, we do. When we intend to do harm, it happens. What each of us must come to realize is that our intent always comes through. We cannot sugarcoat the feelings in our heart of hearts. The emotion is the energy that motivates. We cannot ignore what we really want to create. We should be honest and do it the way we feel it. What we owe to ourselves and everyone around is to examine the reasons of our true intent. http://thinkexist.com/quotations/respect/
I remember seeing that episode and thinking how Amber could be so mean and disrespectful to Gary. I think that when you speak in a calm tone rather than yelling that that is a form of respect and scream and carrying on is a form of disrespect.
ReplyDeleteYes, I agree with what you are saying, and there was different disrespect matters, that can be avoided.
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