Love and Happiness on Respect! :)

My topic was on Respect for all of my blogs, blogging about respect and reading over all my information, has really showed me, how to respect people more.  Life is what you make it, so thats exactly what I'm doing. I have, realize what causes problems in my life and I now watch the way I talk to my friends, and family. Doing these blogging assignments, I can truly say from the bottom of my heart that it has helped through problems that I have had with my best friends, and parents, teachers. I would be a huge hyprocrit, by talking about and blogging about respect, if i actually didn't do it. Now, I have slipped and said some things to people and been disrespectful. I have to watch the way I talk to people and work on being more nicer. I also learned, as which I blogged about being respectful to my love ones and people that care about me, and show that they are important. Another important, information that I blogged about was about being in relationships and respecting. The key factors on that is Love, trust, respect. I say that because if you dont respect your girlfriend or boyfriend, you cant really be in a relationship. For example, me being in a relationship with my boyfriend, I didnt respect him as much as did in the begining because he hurt me so bad that I had to gain respect in him after awhile. Which was not good on my part because they were always harsh words said and never really cared about each others feelings because we didnt respect each other. Now when I did the blog with the interview questions, on my sister I got her opinion on how she felt on respect, and interviewing other people and learning how they feel about certain things, makes me open up to other people, which I never did before. Everyday I which I can rewind time for the people that I hurt and said hurtful things to wish can go back to them and change what I said or apologize for things, but I cant go all my life, regreting on things, all I can do is look back at the past, and worry about the future. We all worry about what's going to happen in the future, but we never sit down and worry about whats in front of us. To be honest, when we first did our first blog I was stuck and didnt know what to write about to even start off with a subject. So when I came up with blogging about respect, it popped in my mind that it wouldnt be as hard. Now some blogs were a little confusing and I couldnt come up with a decision on what to write, I narrowed things down, and then got to writing. I review as in a problem to inhale & exhale. Some makes you mad, inhale, and let all the anger inside of your body, and then exhale with a response that you feel comfortable, and that is respectful, and leave them with them with a surprising look on your face because your the better person!

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Personal Essay on The Love for Mother

Everyone has experienced love or has love ones that they really love or cherish love with ones. I'm here to talk about the love for my mother. My mother has given birth to me, and did all she can for me, and still is. I just want to give all the thanks to her because she has done a lot. We should all appreciate the people that made a difference in our lives or help us out. Being grateful to others and helping them before you help yourself, is being very grateful. Everyday, I thank my Mother for all that she has done for me. Love that I have for my mother can't not be describe in words because they are indescribable. The biggest effect that she has had on my life was always telling me that right thing and raising me and showing me how to be respectful to other people and to grow up into a young woman, and I highly respect her for that. That's what my last blog was about Respect, and she has taught me how to respect other people and to show them respect when its needed. My mother also impacted my life when,  she divorced my Father and got on her own to feet by herself. She took care of her family and got her own house, even though we struggled a lot, she still managed to get everything she needed for us! Life will be much harder if you go around and hate people or don't forgive people because most of your life you will be miserable. Those are all the reasons why I love my mother so much and respect and tell her that I love her everyday. I described her any many ways, she is strong, Independent, loving, strong minded, giving and most of all my wonderful MOTHER!

"Mama, you know I love you". By, BOYZ II MEN

Compare and Contrast

To compare and contrast, respect and disrespect, is a way of seeing and anazlying how other people act, on respectful ways and disrespectful ways. I used a video from the show teen mom, and how the couple respect or disrespect themselves. Amber and Gary have a child and they constantly argue. To compare Respect is good and shows that you care. Disrespect shows that you don't care about yourself and other people.To compare both of them would have to be people expressing there feelings either way. This video with the two people dicussing their feelings about what happen when they were fighting(in a calm manner) is respectful. When they were fighting on Amber putting her hands on her boyfriend was very disrespectful and could have been avoided, with a calm mannerd tone and talked things out, and fight infront of their daughter. This just a little demo on compare/contrast on respect. Where they talked about there problems and how it could be avoided.

http://www.mtv.com/videos/teen-mom-season-2-ep-8-hello-and-goodbye/1647815/playlist.jhtml

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These two videos are the ways that they are compared and contrast because both of them are talking about their inside feelings and how they feel about one another. The first video, they are being very disrespectful to there parents. Although Maci is very calm and relaxed, talking to Dr.Oz about how she feels and what really matters to her.

Certain people have a way of saying things that shake us at the core. Even when the words do not seem harsh or offensive, the impact is shattering. What we could be experiencing is the intent behind the words. When we intend to do good, we do. When we intend to do harm, it happens. What each of us must come to realize is that our intent always comes through. We cannot sugarcoat the feelings in our heart of hearts. The emotion is the energy that motivates. We cannot ignore what we really want to create. We should be honest and do it the way we feel it. What we owe to ourselves and everyone around is to examine the reasons of our true intent. http://thinkexist.com/quotations/respect/

R.E.S.P.E.C.T ; find out what it means to you! ; interview questions

As respect is a big factor in today's world. People have been disrespected and have respected other people, but we the people have to determine whether to be the bigger person or not. We have to determine whether the outcome will be good or not, if we respect when another in a confronation, a simple question, in a normal conversation. Respecting your boss, can keep you the job in any circumstance or any situation. I decided to interview, my sister and see what she thinks about the value of respect and how she feels on certain reasons.

1. Q: How do you respect other people?
    A: Brittany said she doesn't interupt people when they are talking and cares about other people's feelings

2.  Q: Do you think being respectful can get you far in life?
     A: Brittany said yes, because makes you more successful

3. Q: Can being respectful prevent arguments
    A: Brittany said, yes because you can show a person how you really feel without yelling or being mean.

4. Q:Do you think showing others, your respectful is good?
    A: Brittany said yes because people can look at you different because they respect you.

5.  Q:Do you respect others?
     A: Brittany said yes, because I would want others to respect me.

6. Q: What are your outlooks on respect?
    A: Brittany said, my outlooks on respect is that, as long as I respect others and they respect me, then everything should be fine.

7. Q: How does it feel when others show you respect?
    A: Brittany said, I feel good inside, because I'm being nice to other people.

8. Q: When others disrespect you, what do you do?
    A: Brittany said, when others disrespect me, I still keep my cool, and proceed on with my day and ignore them.

9. Q: Is respect a great value on yourself?
    A: Brittany said, yes because respect is all in me.

10. Q: Answering these questions, does this help you understand respect more?
      A: Brittany said, yes because she was never asked these question that help express and evaulate about respect.

Interviewing my sister, actually helped her ownself, realize what others feel and say about respecting themselves and her ownself. Interviewing her, made me question my ownself.

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Respect is something that should always be on your side.

I'm reading a book called something on the side, it has a whole bunch of characters who need to get there selves in check with one another. This book is an overview of my whole lesson on respect. Something on the side: Eygpt has a sister, and her name is Isis..they are always together all the time and they tell each other everything. Eygpt has a better good life and is in a serious relationship with her signifcant lover. She has an ex boyfriend that loves her to death and is basically obessed with her. Eygpt boyfriend starts a fight with her ex boyfriend, Tony, and then months pass and then came to find out that. Isis and her ex-boyfriend are dating. My opinion on this book relates to respect because, first off they are suppose to be sisters and then you don't have respect for one another to do something like that.(Weber, Feburary 28). My other reason is that fighting doesn't solve anything. That problem could have been avoided by them talking things out and not resulting in a fight. If they had more respect for each other they, would have been okay. As I said in my last blog respect gets you out of situations when you are the bigger person and you overlook childlish things, and you gain more respect for yourself. Gaining more respect for yourself and, other peole then there shall be no problem. Back to, the book and the sisters Eygpt and Isis, they dont have respect for one another because, shes willing to take her sisters ex-boyfriends man and then rub it in her face. That's conveing and disrespectful. She didn't have to go up to her and yell in her face about her doing things like that. Everybody has to evaulate thereselves and analyze before they say anything to anyone.

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Personal Essay

I've have experienced different types of attiudes, and people that have disrespected  me, there are ways to get around, in that matter and be able to ignore what people say and what they act towards me. When I was younger, I always went off on somebody and didn't really care about other people's feelings. Now that I'm older and I actually can watch what I say to other people. Being respectful, and showing others that I can be nice in anyway. I have a postive attitude that will take me a far. If I get into an allitercation with another person that is yelling in my face or is using foul language, I can over look them, and answer them with a postive attiude without hurting there feelings or being rude. Back when I was younger if I was in the same postition I would have been rude or caused a fight. I ask myself, why, argue with igronant people, if there not going to do nothing for me in the future. This famous quote that I will live for, for the rest of my life, that will always have a high value on me and be remembered is:      “Don't rely on someone else for your happiness and self worth. Only you can be responsible for that. If you can't love and respect yourself - no one else will be able to make that happen. Accept who you are - completely; the good and the bad - and make changes as YOU see fit - not because you think someone else wants you to be different.” By. Stacy Charter. This quote has already had it's meaning said and done. I look at myself and say "I have came along way from what I use to do, and how I act now, and that's all that matters. I have grown over the years, and learned how to respect other people. I look at myself different!

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How To..

The definition of respect is the acknowledgement that someone or something has the value. This gets to the point of the fact that while we may not always agree with someone or what they say; how should you go about showings others respect? Be attentive to what they saying. Make eye contact with them when they are talking and don’t be day dreaming. Eye contact is the best way to show interest. Be sensitive to their thoughts and feelings. Just as you would want others to show sensitivity toward the things you feel strongest about you must do the same to others. One other thing that I value on respect is fair towards the other person. Many times we unfairly judge another person or their views and don’t show the respect they deserve.http://www.ehow.com/how_4502150_show-respect-others.html By Ethan Right

As I view and analyze what respect really, it really goes along way. We can use respect in job related things and other jesters that can help us in today’s world. All the reasons that I gave, in the top paragraph are all the reasons why you need to respect each other! As you can be a role model. There will always be people who are critical of you. It's a way for them to exercise control like the alpha dog in the pack who maintains her status by constantly reminding you that you're the runt of the litter. So, where does a Goddess get R.E.S.P.E.C.T? You have to find out what it means to YOU! And that means looking in the mirror and respecting yourself for who you are. If you are a human being, you are something and hence, you must have value. You're the only one who can assign what that value is. Look in the mirror. Honor the Goddess you see both inside and out from the color of your skin and the shape of your body to the love in your heart and the heart of your soul. Love yourself. Believe in yourself. Know that you a perfect being, deserving of respect from both yourself and from others.

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Recent news on Respect

A newsworthy news on respect, would  have to be, information with different politics and other people have to respect one another to get there point across. Just like the President Obama has different people listen to him as he speaks to very important people.The latest research that Ive looked up was when two people in a congress room where talking and other things could have been said. People in the room could have been rude and disrespectful but they didn't.Better things happen when things go in the right direction!www.barackobama.com

 This is one of the quotes that I feel is more important:
That is the genius of America, a faith in the simple dreams of its people, the insistence on small miracles. That we can say what we think, write what we think, without  hearing a sudden knock on the door, without being  can be reflected out on other people. This quote relates to my respect concern because of the different reasons why people should be respected and what they feel and do what they want without somebody bringing them down or critzing one another.

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Did you know?

Everyone, knows about respect, and wonder about things that may never make sense or be able to understand; the concept of respect and it is never given by low or by rules. It's within yourself out to be never given because there's no result in the matter. So a did yu know question? It could be related to sex talk, or any way related to a question that involves respect! As I said in my last blog about respect, it goes a far way. did you it can affect other people? Did you know it can affect your friends and love ones, by mean things that are said? Did you know that love is equalvient to respect. Everybody comes across things that make them wonder, in life. Asking did you know questions about this topic, can actually help you commuincate with people alot better. Everytime, I talk about this certain subject it helps me go through, the probelms I dont understand about respect in its ways.       “The best thing to give to your enemy is forgiveness; to an opponent, tolerance; to a friend, your heart; to your child, a good example; to a father, deference; to your mother, conduct that will make her proud of you; to yourself, respect; to all men, charity.”

Respect

Respect goes a far way; when you are dealing with this certain matter. As life goes on each day. I realized that when I respect some and show them and talk to them respectfully a lot of things can be avoided. My theory on respect is weighted on certain situations. Basically, you hear all your school teachers, “You show me respect and ill do the same”. Or you hear “You have to give respect to get it”. Yes I know, we hear that and roll our eyes, and continue to whatever is doing. Actually when you hear those quotes and you think, that everything is a joke. It’s actually the way to go and a way of showing you care about other people’s feelings and on your behalf its pride and dignity! Yes I know it sounds a little cocky but it’s the truth. I’ve had plenty of experiences with, being disrespected and being disrespectful, I talked to back to teachers and to my parents.  I’ve learned now that being, that way doesn’t really make things go far.  I wonder how many times we try to do right and respect people and don’t get it in return as long as I stay true to myself and loyal to myself and respect others, even though they disrespect me I still well keep pushin’ it, because nobody can stop my shine or bring me down, that’s the whole little theory on how I feel about respect. Each day just shows how much I care about not arguing to the opposite who control the ignorance. That’s I how I feel even though it urks my soul to walk away from ignorant people, but it shows that I’m bigger and better than other people that state the obvious. That’s why I feel that respect goes along way!